The Lost Boys: How a Pop Sensation Came Undone

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Submitted by Carkey from Ontario Canada
Date: Fri Aug 23 15:12:32 2002

Okaaay.... I just think this is...ugh, words cannot describe how I feel about the writer of that article. He's sticking his nose where it doesn't belong. Maybe the reason we hadn't heard all this stuff before (well, I hadn't, lol) was because BSB doesn't want it out? They don't want our pity. They want to do what they were set on this earth to do- make great music, and have a good time doing it. And about Leighanne- no need to talk trash about her. She's a wonderful woman, and was in the buisness prolly far before she met Brian, and she wanted to help her husband in a way she knew she could. She's prolly a great actress, tho I haven't seen any of her work, and wouldn't want to hurt her husband's career.

And this whole NSYNC thing- it's just pathetic. that's all I have to say. NSYNC's all directed to litle kids now, while BSB have grown to older audiences, for the most part. But...I just think it's so funny, because an NSYNC fan came up to me a while ago and said that BSB were too old for anyone to like. I flat out told her- the age difference between the toldest members of each group is 26 days. I mean, jeez, it ain't even a month! pathetique. lol.

I was pretty pissed off this morning because I've been waiting on Nick Carter's single every day since it came out, and instead I hear the Justin Timberlake single. Which is the worst piece of crap I've ever heard, by the way. I've been requesting Nick Carter every day, and this is how I'm rewarded--I love you too, Kiss. =P

but anyway, I know that's because BSB's been recording, and NSYNC had the single of the year voted by teens...upsetting, but something BSB fans will have to deal with until they get their new CD out. and that's the truth. I mean, it's not like you can un-vote for NSYNC...tho it's tempting...lol...

So, I'm giving this article a GET A LIFE and signing out for now. So KTBSPA and keep voting! =) and a HAPPY YESTERDAY BIRTHDAY to our little Howard!!! he's getting so old...*sniffle* lol...

luv ya lots!

Cark

Submitted by Jennifer Gelowitz from Yorkton Saskatchewan Canada
Date: Fri Aug 23 14:48:52 2002

I love BSB, I have since the first day I saw 'We've Got It Goin' On'. This story finally sheds some light on the story behind the troubles of the band. It gave me a whole new perspective on all the legal troubles the Boys have been faced with. i'm so glad that this article was posted, so that I can feel even more joy that through all the sh!t that the Boys have gone through, they're still here, making the best music in the world!

Submitted by Krissy from USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 14:45:29 2002

More comments to come later, but first of all, I just want to say this - who is this Backstreet-N'Sync war between anyway? The bands, the fans, or music industry bigwigs and the media who wants to use a band feud to sell records? I'm so sick of everyone pitting the two against each other. Let the BSB fans listen to BSB, and the N'Sync fans listen to N'Sync. It's as simple as that!

Submitted by Sthefanie from Montevideo Montevideo Uruguay
Date: Fri Aug 23 14:23:35 2002

Hey yall...
Owww...it's hard to breath, I can't believe how my future collages (because I'm wanna be a journalist) have the enough guts to say that when it's not of their businees. I don't blame them in the whole, because that's the information they were given. What really scares me is that manager Azoff said about Nick, I think that he's mad at Nick because he's still at The Firm. And I think he might want to take him out cuz of that, maybe he talks shit about him to the rest of the guys. I actually don't know, but, whatever happens inside backstreet do matter to us, because, I feel them as my family, let's say, part of my family. Of course we won't ever know what really happens in the group, it happens to everybody, sometimes we don't even know what happens in real families, or between friends, that's hard.
The boys grew up, yes, they sure did, we all know it, but ya know, we also did. Now when we start that Nsync stuff again, it's just senseless, personally, I can't stand those guys, but it's better ignoring them. And we all know that BSB doesn't have the same MTV attention they had because of the unplugged thing. I think that the Firm wasn't the best choice, and Nick was wrong staying, but it's also wrong from the boys' side, stayin with someone who wants to split them, or take out a part of it. Ya gotta know I'd be upset the same way if the one in the middle would be any of the other guys, although Nick is my "chosen one", but it doesn't matter who is, what really matters is that there's someone trying to do wrong to them.
This thing is kinda stupid, if they were in crisis, or had already decided splitting, we would already know it. We were the first knowing everything about Aj and all their troubles. This is happening cuz God wants it to, he brought them for us, and He brought us for them. We're here for each other. So, stay tight, everybody.
See y'all on the road
K.T.B.S.P.A
Sthefanie *kaos*

kaos80@adinet.com.uy (feel free of emailing me)
p.s: those are not my wisest words, right now I should be somewhere else, doing something different, but, destiny's like that...don't worry. EVERYTHING'S GONNA BE ALRIGHT!
and our boys, Backstreeters, as 2pac used to sing "KEEP YA HEAD UP!"

Submitted by justine from anaheim ca USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 14:22:04 2002

FIRST OF ALL, DOES ANY1 ACTUALLY READ WHAT THE OTHER PPL WRITE? JUST ASKIN

also, it's great that u guys realize how much bsb needs us, but are any of u guys DOIN ANYTHING TO MAKE THEM "GET THE ATTENTION THEY DESERVE". if u guys want to show the world bsb is the best, u guys have to do somethin about it. it's not like bsb will magically reappear on the top of the charts w/o any votin or requestin. LET'S START WITH NICK'S NEW SONG, NOT ALL OF U MITE SUPPORT IT, BUT NICK IS PART OF THE BAND AND MORE PUBLICITY FOR HIM, IS MORE FOR THE GROUP, SO START VOTING.......................KTBSPA. HOPE I DIDN'T SOUND TOO HARSH. LOL

Submitted by Alex from NY NY USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 13:17:39 2002

I would of never listened to pop music if it wasn't for the BSB. Just before Quit Playing Games reached success in the US I had a friend who forced me to listen to their CD. And I liked it. Now I was a person at the time who was very narrow minded when it came to music. But they made me realize that I can like all sorts of music. I appreciate that very much. This article is sad and heart warming for long time BSB fans. It is good to see that someone realizes that they haven't had the smoothest ride in the record business. They were young boys when they started. They were so excited to be signed that they made some poor decisions. They were also trustworthy wich from example in this kind of industry you can see doesn't go hand in hand. I don't much care for Lieghanne, and I hope she doesn't Ono the group. (Ono for anyone who might not know is a reference to the original boy band, The Beatles.) Kristen unlike Lieghanne has the respect and sense not to put herself into the boys business. She isn;t trying to get famous thanks to her husband. No Brian is not my favorite so don't think I am jealous. BUt a few entrys ago a someone said that they have not evolved. Let's think. Can you not see and hear the difference since when they started. For example, Tell me that I'm Dreaming. That was one of their first songs you can not tell me that they have not changed even from Backstreet Self Titled to Black and Blue. We've got it Goin on to Time a beautiful and well written song. And you said not to cpmpare them to Nsync, that is right they aren't Nysnc. But then you said unlike Nsync they haven't changed. Isn't that hypocrtical? You comparing them to Nsync. Who no Personally I don't their sound. Wich is different from BSB and you don't seem to respect that. And Millennium and Black and Blue were very different. Millenium was a ballad based album with a much sweeter and lighter tone. While Black and Blue has a darker element. For anyone who is a fan of older music they might know and realize the comparisons of the BSB and The Beatles. I am not saying in any way BSB changed music like The Beatles did on such a scale but they have some similarities. Please excuse me for rambling. But Not every Beatles album was liked either. Some were darker and they drastically changed and thanks to meddling family and outside realtionships even they crumbled. But BSB has been together now longer than The Beatles. So I have hope that they can still go, maybe not as strong as they were at first but they will still be seen in the music business. Right now we are just weeding out the hardcore loyal fans with the ones who just happened to a of jumped on the band wagon when they came out. BSB and Nsync are very different, looks, sound and style. I just prefer BSB style than Nsyncs. But I am not going to say to someone my god you like them. They can like who they want as long as they respect the fact I like the BSB more. SO don't compare them that was good advice. But I think that is all I have to say for now. Please mail me if you like what I wrote so that I know that there is still some real BSB fans. Despite how Korny it may sound but KTBSPA!

Submitted by tre kirkland from greenville sc USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 13:11:43 2002

I do not understand why people are trying to end the BSB! They are not breaking up. They have said this plenty of times. Also, NSYNC has not "passed" them. NSYNC has some good songs but let's look at numbers. Black and Blue sold 8 million copies not 5.3 as stated in this article. Compare that to Celebrity which has sold 5 million. The BSB Greatest Hits album has sold 2.2 million! A Greatest Hits Album! Black and Blue out did Millienum's first week, while Celebrity went down from No Strings. NSYNC is alright and I am tired of the "war" between the two groups. However, BSB needs the respect they deserve!

Submitted by Marina from Rio de Janeiro, RJ Brazil
Date: Fri Aug 23 12:37:20 2002

lia, maybe the reason why the boys mnusic has'nt evolved is the fact that Jive, and their management has pushed them to make their albums so quicly. Kevin said it himself, he wasn't happy about the album, and felt they should have experimented more, but there was all the preassure for the cd to come out.

Submitted by Mia from USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 11:02:17 2002

If you all feel the need to continually compare BSB and *NSYNC, at least be honest about it. To say that *NSYNC's sound hasn't changed is absurd! They have effectivly evolved from the bubble-gum pop of the Cherion(sp?) studios to a widely accepted hip-hop/electronic sound, that consistantly charts high on the R&B and pop charts. Whether some of us like the songs or not doesn't change the facts. The BSB last few singles have failed to even chart in the top 20 in the U.S. according to Billboard, the industry Bible. Why? Because BSB are the group who's sound hasn't evolved. Shape of My Heart, for example was a poor retread of Millenium-it was ok, but almost every unreleased song off of Millenium was better. With all of the talent that the BSB have it amazes me that they don't try to experiment with their sound to keep ahead of the game. As for the postings that keep saying how succeful BSB are all over the world-they are-but have dropped off considerably, just like in the United States. This next album (assuming it gets made) is vital to prove to the music industry and their record company that they have what it takes to maintain a long career. Vocal talent doesn't go very far if you do not keep growing musically- with the songs you choose to sing. I don't know how they are going to do this though. They are so different. Brian and Kevin like more organic/country type music (Ex. James Taylor is one of their heroes)-Nick likes rock (Ex. Bryan Adams)- Howie and AJ like a more hip-hop/R&B sound. How do you make all that work well on one album? Their success in the past was easy because they had Max Martin basically guiding the whole projects- so they didn't get much of a say so- which kept a lot of fighting down and didn't show their differences. Now that they are more in charge it's hard for them to mesh well. It doesn't help that on top of all this they have continually had bad management, meddling family members (Leighanne), and embarassing incidents (Nick's arrest, AJ/rehab) etc. A lot of you keep saying, also, that Joey from Nsync has a baby and the press and management for *NSYNC don't make an issue of it. They don't because he doesn't have his girlfriend involving herself in his group. She maintains a low-key profile because she must understand that Joey's career is not her business to be attending meetings and voting as a sixth member, a lesson Leighanne would truly benfit from. I hope that despite it all the BSB will pull it together and show the world how truly amazing they are.

Submitted by Erin from Orlando Florida USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 09:23:02 2002

Wow. I definitely agree that it's about time someone wrote something like that to show everyone out there just what these guys have had to go through the past 9 years. I know I, for one, will always support each of them in whatever it is they choose to do in their lives or their careers, whether it be as a group or solo. I don't think they have lost support from their fans though. It seems that every time they want to take time off to be normal human beings and spend some quality time with family and friends or even work on projects for new albums or promotions the media wants to portray it as the Backstreet Boys are dead. Well of course they aren't going to get as much fan attention or media attention if they aren't in the spotlight at that moment in time. I guarantee you though, when a new album hits and they are going around doing promotions, just like Millennium and just like Black & Blue, the craze will start back up and they will once again be shutting down Time Square. Yes they are getting older. That is inevitible. No they may not be around forever. That too is inevitible. But no matter what happens, either now or in the distant future, one thing is for certain. We, the fans, know that we are still here for them. I think Nick said it best "As long as we have our fans, we can conquer anything." And he was right on the money. So my advice to everyone, don't feed into media crap. I think Kev, Bri, Nick, AJ and Howie have proven to us over the years just how honest and straight forward they are with us. The Backstreet Boys will never be dead to me until I hear it from the Boys themselves. Be good, be real, and KTBSPA!

Submitted by Mandy from Australia
Date: Fri Aug 23 09:06:34 2002

I can't believe this! I knew the BackstreetBoys have been through a lot of shit, but I had no idea it was anything like that. It's good that whoever wrote this put everything in perspective for a lot of people who diss the guys saying stuff like they never do anything for themselves. This article was really good, it almost made me cry because I realised how dificult it must be for them. All the bad publicity and haters and stuff just put more and more pressure on them. I think people should give them a break and try and see how they'd feel in the Backstreet Boys' shoes.
That's my opinion anyway. I'll always be a backstreet girl, always and forever. Keep The Backstreet Pride Alive.
Love Mandy

Submitted by Kelly from Long Branch New jersey USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 08:55:57 2002

I am in shock! I have to agree with all the fans on this one! I still love backstreet boys and I hope that, Everyone out there is not going to give up on the boys! I think, that It all came out at once and It was just a whole big shocker to the fans! But, Do you guys think that They will blow up again, once the album comes out? I sure as heck hope so! We can't give up guys!!!
KTBSPA!!!
Kelly

Submitted by Julie from Australia
Date: Fri Aug 23 07:06:22 2002

I agree with Ashley, it's about time something like this was written about BSB. At least now us fans have an incite into what they've been going through. When I read it, it all made sense. You start to understand why things happened. As for the whole Nick vs the rest of the band....it could all have been avoided if they were properly looked after in their early years. He could've started a solo career if he wanted and not let it interfere with the group. It's just another case of exploitation. The last thing the guys need right now is conflict within the group. That's how everything crashes to the ground.

Submitted by Ashley aka BSBz Bath Water from Virginia Beach Virginia USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 06:49:48 2002

Is it just me who thinks this article was positive? Look, it was very honest. VERY honest. But it showed everything that the Boys have had to deal with. All the trials. In my opinion, it's about time something like this was written about BSB. Hopefully people will read that article and gain a whole new respect for the guys, because they really have been through a lot...and they're still here. They WILL be back, and if they keep on toughing it out, they'll come out on the other side, because that's what happens when you fight hard for a good reason.

Submitted by Erica from Singapore Singapore
Date: Fri Aug 23 05:22:00 2002

Ok......what's wrong with who ever that wrote
"How a Pop Sensation came Undone" I still and will love BSB and so as other billion people!
Nsync??? BSB is WAY better!!! All we need is new songs!!! I think their busy 'cause of families. You know Kevin and Brian married. I also heared that Nick's working on solo. See!!! HE's workin'
hard!!!!
So I just hope they'll come back to the top lists again

Submitted by Ana from Romania
Date: Fri Aug 23 03:09:23 2002

Hey you guys! It's really great to see you're still keeping your spirts high! You've made feel a little better.
I still couldn't sleep last night though. I was so angry thinking about what happenned to them and how their life's work is being trashed like that!I do wish they had a press conference or something to clear things up. Most of all I wish they read all thse pages and realise how important they are to us.
Their first mistake (from the start) was to hide the truth.They should've talked about at least some of the problems they were having. But they didn't and that's what made that article so shocking and dug into their credibility.
I am a pathologically committed person and I will love them even after I die! What I want is for them to prove to all of us that our love for them for all these years hasn't been in vain and that what they've worked so hard for will not be forgetten because of everyting and everyone who makes up something about them.
AJ once said that nothing can touch them, that they're stronger than ever. I would hate it if that was just a word thrown in the wind.


PS I got so caught up in this whole thing that I forgot to tell Howie happy birthday! hell our guys are all probably still partying right now!

Submitted by Patty from Los Angeles California USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 01:47:44 2002

Those critics, media, and/or haters need to stop criticizing BSB! They are always making up rumors that they are braking up and crap! I hate that they are saying that NSYNC is better than BSB and that they are younger than BSB! BSB is still cool; it doesn't matter if they are getting old and have been trough some down times! Arosmith is old and has been through drugs and alcohol and is still very popular! Just like some old 60’s 70’s bands! NSYNC is a little younger (big deal!), but in fact Chris is like 30 years old! Also, who cares if Brian and Kevin got married, they need to get married some day, its not like they can stay single forever! Fans understood them and stuck by them! It seems that NSYNC has a better chance of braking up than BSB. I mean everyone is doing their own thing and like forgetting about the group. And the media doesn't make a big deal about that! But when BSB has a little problem they are all over them and making up false rumors! Those people need to get a life!!! And saying that Nick is going to be replaced is stupid and crazy!! Nick is fateful to his buds and his album is going to sell millions just like BSB's new album! I know BSB's fans are also fateful and will support BSB and be by them in there in need; just like when they were they’re for A.J! So like I said before those critics need to get a life and stop saying that NSYNC is better that BSB, cause they couldn't be more WRONG!!!

Submitted by Bonnie from USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 01:04:29 2002

Oh geeze..I definitely have a lot to say. First, I think everybody who's enough of a fan to be concerned about this is on the same page...we love BSB. We always will, AND we know they aren't going anywhere! I was never too concerned with all the business crap going on but that article sort of shocked me. I knew it was all going on but for them to focus on that and overspeculate about it seemed completely absurd. BSB is not some hot toy that record companies and management are trying to re-sell year after year! And as for Nick's album--Power to him! For pete's sake, those of us that call ourselves fans should know that it won't harm the group in any way, and that his CD is gonna kick! (Forgive my bias, Nick just happens to be my..well..fave is a harsh word, so let's try "dream lover".LOL!)But bias aside I truly am proud of Nick. As I type I'm listening to clips of the album and I love them! The idea for everyone to go out and buy Now or Never ASAP is great..I think it would really work.
Whoever says that Nick's success may lead him to leaving the Boys is obviously on something. But for him to think they would replace Nick?! How ridiculous is that? What the future holds is beyond me. However, I know that once BSB gets this album out they're comin' back. Maybe they'll set records, maybe they won't. Maybe they'll go platinum, maybe they won't. Whatever happens, happens and if all the other fans out there are as awesome as I think, then I'd feel damn lucky to be in BSB, cuz ladies (and gents!) we rock! AND SO DO OUR BOYS!!

Submitted by justine from anaheim ca USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 00:50:53 2002

karina and anna are right. esp. AFTER THAT HORRIBLE DEFEAT OF NICK. JUSTIN BEAT HIM LIKE CRAZY! we gotta make bsb and nick on top again! we gotta show the world it's still cool to be fans of bsb. the truth is, the number of records sold is important. no one can actually say it doesn't matter. when the album comes out the first day (nick's) but it. i kno i'm buyin his album the first day and might buy 2, one for me and one for my friend's b-day. that way i can support them and get my friend a quality present.

Submitted by Sarah from IL USA
Date: Fri Aug 23 00:48:41 2002

I was 13 years old the first time I heard a Backstreet song, and I'll be 18 in 2 months. I've been a fan for 6 years, and as I've grown up, so have the boys, and to me that is a good thing. When I was 13 it wasn't about the music to me, it was how blue Nick's eyes were or if I liked his haircut that day. I did the whole arguing over who is cuter: Nick or Brian, and as time went on, who is better: BSB or Nsync. The difference b/w 13 and 18 is undeniably incredible. Now I'm worrying about the ACT, not Nick cutting his hair. But the best part is that I'm still a fan, reqardless. Of course now it's for different reasons, I actually listen to the music. The past 6 years have been one big rollercoaster in my life, but that's how the teenage years are. Personally, I don't know what I would have done without the boys. Sometimes in life you just need a reason to smile, and the boys have been my reason a lot of times whether it be b/c the lyrics to a certain song I could really relate to, or Nick was wearing a shirt that mocked abercrombie and fitch. I've been dealing with depression since I was 10 and I can honestly say that had it not been for a couple of silly backstreet songs on my bad days, i probably would have lost my mine, really. It may sound ridiculous, but they gave me a sense of security b/c I really relied on their music to get me through, and it did. Last year when A.J. went into rehab it had such a huge effect on me b/c I felt that my source of strength for the last 6 years needed me to be strong for them, and it nearly killed me b/c i was so used to them being my strength. I'm getting to my point now, I promise. Basically what I'm trying to say is that we will never know everything about what goes on in their business lives. We will never know the complete truth about Lou Pearlman, or Jive, or The Firm. But, the boys have been giving us so much for the past 10 years that if they want to stop, that is ok. We have so much from them already. We don't know what goes on behind closed doors, so all we can do is accept what they give us and support them. Don't get all worked up over a newspaper aricle. Everyone has their side to a story. As far as I'm concerned, If Nick wants to go solo and the other guys want to continue w/out him separately, LIFE WILL GO ON. We will still get music, and a reason to smile every now and then. I mean, who knows what would have happened if the Backstreet Boys had done that Disney concert instead of Nsync, NOBODY. All of the "what might've beens" in the world can't change things now, so just enjoy the music and live your lives. And if Nick wants to go solo, Let Him!! The Boys will never be lost as long as we don't forget what they have give to us over the past decade. And ya know what, they haven't come undone. They are who they always were, but guess what, EVERYONE HAS TO GROW UP. That is what we do as humans. And the whole argument over who is better: BSB or Nsync, is getting really old, so lets just drop it already. If the NY Times has nothing better to do than obsess over two bands' conflict with Lou Pearlman, especially with everything that is going on in the world, then I think they have bigger problems than whether or not Nick or Justin's solo album does better. It's a NEWSpaper for goodness sakes, not Rollng Stone.

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